how to get your girlfriend back

 

 

How to Get Your

Girlfriend Back

You’ve been regretting it since the day

you let her go. And you can’t sleep

another day without doing something

about it. If you really love her, do not

give up. Get on your feet and win your

girlfriend back.

To start you off the right track, here are

some points and tips to keep in mind.

Give her space after the break-up. The

harder you push, the more she might

pull away. If she says she needs some

time, respect her decision. Do not call

her every minute of the day. Last thing

you want is to annoy her with your over-

persistence, and worse, drive her into a

habit of hiding from you.

Do not beg or plead. This tends to

scream desperation. Even if you are

actually desperate to win her back, do

not turn clingy.

You can court her all over again with

flowers, chocolates and letters. But while

the gifts are bound to draw a smile,

winning her back will require a more

personal and sincere gesture.

Show her that you are worthy of a

second chance . Use the time you have

spent apart since the break-up to reflect.

Think back on the qualities that

attracted her to you in the first place.

Play up your strengths. Become the man

she first fell for.

Figure out what exactly went wrong

with your relationship. Replay in your

head the conversations, and even fights,

you had.

From there, you’ll know what needs to

be fixed . If it was something you did, ask

yourself why you did it in the first place.

This way, you are clear on which issues

you need to come to terms with. If it was

a problem with your behavior, then work

on your weak spots.

After you have made the necessary

“fixes”, arrange to meet or talk with

her . You can check with her friends if

they think she’s ready to hear you out.

Be patient.

When she does agree to a

conversation, humbly apologize for

your wrongdoings and take

responsibility for your actions . “Sorry”

goes a long way.

But do not stop at an apology. Convince

her that your relationship deserves a do-

over. Assure her that you will be a much

better partner this time around. Pour

your heart out.

Do not, however, force the

reconciliation . Show her how much you

want to be with her. Let everything else

fall into place.

Also, do not pressure her into deciding

on your future right away . Let her know

of your intentions and your feelings, but

assure her that you will completely

respect her choice.

Remember that there’s no need to focus

all your energies on this quest. Have

some time to yourself as well. Do what

makes you feel good, may it be a new

diet, a new hobby or a new look. Who

knows, this might even win you extra

points with her.

The effective “rules of engagement” will

vary with each guy and each

relationship. Use the tips listed above as

a guide to plotting your plan of action.

Just remember that sincerity and

determination are key. And of course,

being mature, responsible, respectful

and thoughtful always comes handy.

Good luck

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